Ladies please

A woman should have one old love she can imagine going back to, and one who reminds her how far she has come. A woman should have a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling in her old age. A woman should have one friend who always makes her laugh, and one who lets her cry. A woman should have a feeling of control over her destiny. Every woman should know how to fall in love without losing herself. Every woman should know how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without ruining the friendship. Every woman should know when to try harder and when to walk away. Every woman should know how to live alone, even if she doesn't like it. And every woman should know who she can trust, who she can't, and why she shoudn't take it personally.